About Tantra | About Prostate Massage


A Tantric Massage works with your sexual energy, which is life force energy. Tantra is the art of presence and relaxation during arousal, and this is what opens up new and extraordinary possibilities within your own body. Your energy is aroused at the beginning, in a relaxing and natural way, and during the massage, you can expect your erogenous zones to be honoured in a sensitive fashion, taking the energy you generate and moving it around your whole body, connecting everything in a pleasure-filled way.

For men, prostrate massage is available upon request, and is an important part of tantric healing. Read more about the benefits of prostate massage here.

A Tantric Massage asks you to maintain your focus in your own body, meditating on pleasure.  Even though it works with erotic energy, there is an innocence to tantric massage.  A tantric massage is honouring of the whole person.  Heart, soul, mind, emotions, body, spirit and sexuality.  Some people experience it as a reconnection to their divine self.

A Tantric Massage gently introduces you to the main keys of Tantra, which is always a deepening into your sexual potential and the amount of pleasure you can feel throughout the whole of your body.  It teaches you how to recreate the experience in your own personal life, for the benefit of you and your partner.

I touch your body lovingly with presence, acceptance and without judgement. I will connect with you sensitively.  I am adept at feeling and moving energy in your body.

Together we create an atmosphere of trust and safety, so that you can surrender fully. I invite you to honour the inner beauty and love of the feminine, as I honour the beauty and nobility of your divine essence.     

A Tantric Massage is truly a unique and memorable experience in a person's life. 

I look forward to our session...
Bella x

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Bella, Bella, Bella. What an experience. Calm, soft, angelic, heavenly. Today you took me to a place I have never been before and what a journey. You made me feel safe and loved. I cannot wait for my next experience and chance to continue my journey to bliss. Forever present and in the now.

About My Beautiful Tantra

Tantra means Union.

Tantra originated in India centuries ago, and these days in the West, is an umbrella term for the weaving together of sacred, conscious and embodied sexuality teachings, drawing from ancient traditions and modern sexology as well.   My take on Tantra is very much influenced by a range of sacred sexuality teachings and practices and of course my personal experiences, and like all western practitioners, what we do is very much a distortion of what Tantra is in the East no question about it.  Rather what we do in the West is best described as Neo-Tantra.  It is more about the promises of pleasure, loving connection and cosmic union offered by the Tantric approach to embodied sexuality than the spiritual path of tradition.

Sexual Expansion and Sexual Healing.

Tantra teaches us how to expand our capacity for pleasure and extended states of bliss.  We know  the importance of a healthy, well balanced, expressive, and what about even transformative, amazing and transcendental relationship with our own sexuality and love making journey with our partners.   The possibilities are endless, and the tools of Tantra give us the skills to get there.  In the Tantric approach, sex is for healing, not just for recreation and procreation.  Different things happen when we make this shift in perception.... interesting things ... things you didn't know your body could do. 

Yes to Life.

The Tantric approach says yes to life, yes to love, and yes to experiencing life through the body and the senses.  We expand what is possible through bringing our attention to the more subtle realms.  These have the potential to open up into new expansive territories.  

Yes to Pleasure.

Pleasure is very important, not just because it is fun and feels good, but also because it is a marker of health for the body.  The body is designed to have ecstatic, high vibrational transformational experiences.  We have a lot more capacity for pleasure than we might have experienced.  It's a worthwhile journey.  These things, things of bliss, relaxation and pleasure are deeply healing for the body and enlightening for the mind and spiritual journey.  

Tantra is a Return to Erotic Innocence. 

Modern day sexuality seems overt and distorted.  The models for sex we are given in the media and the wide influence of porn are monotonous and unoriginal.  Love making has been banished and violence has replaced it.  In the Tantric approach, sex is seen as natural, sacred and beautiful.  We connect with innocence, vulnerability, curiosity and reverence. 

Tantra is Experiential.

Tantra is of the body, and through the body. It shows us how to embrace our bodies and use our sexual energy for the purpose it is intended.  Sexual energy is actually the energy of enlightenment - it enlightens us when we move the energy up and around our body.  It moves blockages, and the rewards are we get to feel more pleasure and more at home in our bodies, more alive.  It's a vital part of life, exploring your capacities to feel and experience new sensations and states of being.

Tantra creates Harmony between Men and Women.

Tantra honours the relationship between the mature masculine and the divine feminine. When couples bring these principles into play, their dynamic can become divine.  On a big picture level, all sacred sexuality teachings honour the yin and the yang, the masculine and the feminine equally. The seed and the creation.   Tantra could truly help heal the world, on every level, individual to planetary.  If we followed these principles, there would be harmony at all scales of life. 

Sex is Spiritual.

Cultivating pleasure and meditating on pleasure - yes please. Tantra is a spiritual tradition which unites sex and spirituality, seeing sex as a vehicle for spiritual experience. We are the most free of the usual confines of the ego when we expand our energetic states. The most effective way to do this is by raising the sexual energy and the vibrational frequency of your body, while in a state of meditation.   We can only achieve these high spiritual states within ourselves because of the embrace of the other.  Thus we honour the experience and the other for the divinity within them. 

Integrity.  Wholeness.  Fulfilment. 

A tantric approach helps people to be free, happy and self-empowered creators of their own lives. Working with sexual energy effects the greatest change through all areas of your life.  Self confidence, sex appeal, clarity, creativity, feeling whole, feeling at home wherever you are, success. Exploring our sexual energy and our sexuality is the most powerful place for self development.  It is catalyst energy. It has a ripple effect through all areas of your life, because it is empowering yourself from your innermost core.

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Thank you so much for today, it was one of the most profound experiences I have ever had. Complete ecstatic abandon and total union of the physical and spiritual, and all in complete safety.

Did you know that the anus is the most relaxing part of the body to massage?  True.


The G-Spot or Sacred Spot of a man is his prostate gland. The prostate is the man's emotional sex centre. Just as women store their unexpressed emotions and their unresolved trauma in the walls of the vagina, so men store theirs in the prostate.

The prostate massage can be extremely pleasurable, but it is also a very healing experience. It is very useful for helping you feel more grounded in your sexuality and for lasting longer and erectile dysfunction issues, as it brings more life and blood flow to that whole area. Prostate massage can you help you to reclaim sexual sensations that you have lost ... quite possibly because you spend all day sitting on it!  

Prostate massage manually stimulates the prostate gland, flushing fluid from the gland and encouraging blood flow to the entire pelvis. This can be a highly stimulating or profoundly relaxing experience, and both at the same time. 

Some men notice dramatic changes in their erectile function after exploring prostate massage. In fact, up to two-thirds of a man's penis can be situated internally. Sometimes, erections become weaker or smaller overtime because chronic constriction in the pelvic muscles limit blood flow to the penis and keep the penis contracted inside the body. Massage of the perineum and prostate can allow these muscles to relax, and a higher volume of blood can reach the penis.

Prostate massage is excellent preventative health care for men, and probably preferable to a situation such as this at the doctors.


Obviously I'm just kidding as this guy is wearing underwear and the other guy is his massage therapist. 

Obviously I'm just kidding as this guy is wearing underwear and the other guy is his massage therapist. 

Hi Bella, I just wanted to thank you for such a lovely experience.
I feel as if this relaxed smiley feeling could be with me for days.