Osho on Tantra

Osho on Tantra

You are born with the capacity to love, but you are not born with the art of love. That art of love has to be taught, has to be imbibed. People feel bored with their wives and with their husbands. The reason is they have not been able to contact the other's real soul. They have been able to contact the body, but they have missed the contact that happens heart to heart, center to center, soul to soul. Once you know how to contact soul to soul, when you have become soul-mates, then there is no boredom at all. Then there is always something to discover in the other because each being is an infinity, and each being contains God Himself.

Polarities Matter

Polarities Matter

When it comes to relationships, it is the ways in which we are the same that creates closeness between us.  Shared values, shared world view, shared goals, shared interests, time spent together and so on.   But it is distance and difference which creates and renews desire in a long term relationship.  Because a lot of  couples spend a lot of time together and sleep in the same bed every night, they can end up very deeply bonded on a friendship and love level, yet find that their attraction to each other gets weaker the longer they spend together.  All is not lost though, as there are some very practical things we can do to keep desire alive.

In Defence of Men and Masculinity

In Defence of Men and Masculinity

I have a lot of sympathy for men.   I think they put up with a lot.  The way they are portrayed on tv shows as bumbling idiots who can’t use a washing machine even though practically every machine ever invented was invented by a man.  The unconscious manner in which women joke about them and put them down. The way it's seemingly ok for women to objectify men but god forbid a man even looks too long at a woman.

Reclaiming Desire in a Long Term Relationship

Reclaiming Desire in a Long Term Relationship

It’s quite common for desire to disappear in a long term relationship. Sexual intimacy is important. Here are of my top tips to help you reignite desire in your intimate life. 1.Distance breeds desire. While spending 24 7 with your other half breeds familiarity and friendship. It’s important to spend enough time away from your partner so that when you do meet, you have energy and attraction for each other.

TANTRA BRINGS HEALING TO RELATIONSHIPS

TANTRA BRINGS HEALING TO RELATIONSHIPS

Tantric sex is simple: It is the art of making love consciously. When we bring awareness to the act, we automatically contact deeply with the love that we are.  Tantra is embodied awareness, we situate our mind in our body, and we allow the intelligence of the body to flow. We naturally awaken to the love that we are, the energy of love which is always present, always available for us to connect with.  

THE FEMININE AND THE MASCULINE BELONG TOGETHER

THE FEMININE AND THE MASCULINE BELONG TOGETHER

All sacred sexuality traditions, indigenous traditions and esoteric teachings of the major religions from around the world and through the different ages teach this: All of creation stems from the interplay of masculine and feminine energies. The making love of Shiva and Shakti, yin and yang, expansion and contraction, action and receptivity, chaos and order, night and day, positive and negative are all expressions of  masculine and feminine energies.  This is the the dance of life. 

Thoughts on Touch

Thoughts on Touch

When you touch someone it should be special.  You should be centred and present and fully engaged with the part of the body you are touching.  Conscious touch is loving, present, relaxing, and expansive.  All touch should be conscious.   Unconscious touch, touching a person while your mind is elsewhere really doesn’t feel very nice.

Sexual Self Esteem and Feminine Polarity for Women

Sexual Self Esteem and Feminine Polarity for Women

Sexual Self Esteem is how a woman feels about herself in relation to matters of sex, how much she knows about herself sexually, and about the feminine mysteries of her own body, her ability to flow freely and enjoy sex, to know what she wants and to have clear boundaries.  A woman with high sexual self confidence is attractive to men, or whoever she wants to relate with. 

Pleasure and Healing go Together

Pleasure and Healing go Together

Happiness on a biological level is a body full of balanced hormones, chemical reactions such as endorphins and oxytocin, an abundance of life force energy,  and the capacity to cultivate delicious feelings of orgasmicness and blissful sensations of pleasure throughout the body.   Having a positive relationship with your sexual nature is such an important part of a woman’s healthy and fulfilled life.