Tantric sex is simple: It is the art of making love consciously. When we bring awareness to the act, we automatically contact deeply with the love that we are. Tantra is embodied awareness, we situate our mind in our body, and we allow the intelligence of the body to flow. We naturally awaken to the love that we are, the energy of love which is always present, always available for us to connect with.
"Your body is your ground metaphor for life, the expression of your existance. It is your bible, your encyclopedia, your life story. Everything that happens to you is stored and reflected in your body. Your body knows. Your body tells. The relationship to your self to your body is indivisible, inescapable, unavoidable.
Happiness on a biological level is a body full of balanced hormones, chemical reactions such as endorphins and oxytocin, an abundance of life force energy, and the capacity to cultivate delicious feelings of orgasmicness and blissful sensations of pleasure throughout the body. Having a positive relationship with your sexual nature is such an important part of a woman’s healthy and fulfilled life.
Genital armour refers to tension, tightness and hardness which builds up in the genital area which blocks energy flow to the pelvic area. We all have body armouring, defence structures that the body creates to help us cope with childhood and life in general. Sometimes it was necessary to resist and to protect ourselves from the inevitable violations and traumas of life. By armouring, the body seeks to protect itself from pain, emotional, physical or spiritual.
Woman's basic unhappiness, her perennial discontent, is because man can no longer reach her physically. Her emotional excess, depressions, tearful frustration, even pre menstrual tension and the conditions leading to hysterectomy and other uterine problems, are due to man's sexual failure to gather and release in lovemaking her finest fundamental female energies ... Man's basic unhappiness, his perennial restlessness, is because in forgetting how to make love, he abandoned his original divine authority and lost sexual control of himself.
This is a conversation between Charles Eisenstein (author of Sacred Economics) and Rex Brangwyn.
i thought it was wonderful, so I encourage anyone with an interest in deepening their sexual connection, male or female, to listen to it. With their partner, if possible. It speaks of the possibilities that occur when the masculine practices pure presence with the feminine. This allows her to fully open her sexuality. This is a very powerful thing, which not all men have yet experienced, so please, listen, and enjoy.
We certainly live in a sex-saturated society, but it is far from a sex-positive culture. Sexual energy is the most profound and powerful source of energy available to us, yet it has been deeply misunderstood, under-utilised and suppressed. Sex itself is often misused. Sexual healing is necessary to reclaim what is natural to us and what has gone missing.
This woman may be in disguise. She looks very feminine. In fact, she looks very feminine indeed. Dressed in heels and a sexy dress, a well cared for body and a made up face. She looks like she’s all woman. She may think she’s all woman, because she’s got the look, the waxing, the boobs, the high heels, the manicure and pedicure. But she’s not. Be very careful.
Sometimes in a couples' life, it's inevitable that a man's plumbing won't respond as hoped for. This can happen for men when they are feeling disconnected from themselves, aren't getting regular sex, are with partners they're not 100% confident with, as they age, if they've had a bit to drink, or when they're a bit stressed, which would be most men in Sydney.