Welcome, My name is Bella.
I help people with their sexual self-esteem and with expanding their potential for pleasure and that of their partner's.
A Tantric Massage is always a positive, empowering, healing and maybe even life changing experience for you and your body. Or if there is something you would like to learn or overcome, please consider a coaching package.
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One definition I’ve been playing with … Love is Pleasure. The pleasurable feelings of our own hearts which are ours to cultivate and enjoy. Love is the fundamental energy of the universe. Everything is consciousness, and consciousness is love. The universal energies are benevolent and loving.
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You are born with the capacity to love, but you are not born with the art of love. That art of love has to be taught, has to be imbibed. People feel bored with their wives and with their husbands. The reason is they have not been able to contact the other's real soul. They have been able to contact the body, but they have missed the contact that happens heart to heart, center to center, soul to soul. Once you know how to contact soul to soul, when you have become soul-mates, then there is no boredom at all. Then there is always something to discover in the other because each being is an infinity, and each being contains God Himself.
When it comes to relationships, it is the ways in which we are the same that creates closeness between us. Shared values, shared world view, shared goals, shared interests, time spent together and so on. But it is distance and difference which creates and renews desire in a long term relationship. Because a lot of couples spend a lot of time together and sleep in the same bed every night, they can end up very deeply bonded on a friendship and love level, yet find that their attraction to each other gets weaker the longer they spend together. All is not lost though, as there are some very practical things we can do to keep desire alive.
I have a lot of sympathy for men. I think they put up with a lot. The way they are portrayed on tv shows as bumbling idiots who can’t use a washing machine even though practically every machine ever invented was invented by a man. The unconscious manner in which women joke about them and put them down. The way it's seemingly ok for women to objectify men but god forbid a man even looks too long at a woman.
It’s quite common for desire to disappear in a long term relationship. Sexual intimacy is important. Here are of my top tips to help you reignite desire in your intimate life. 1.Distance breeds desire. While spending 24 7 with your other half breeds familiarity and friendship. It’s important to spend enough time away from your partner so that when you do meet, you have energy and attraction for each other.