The Masculine
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In Defence of Men and Masculinity

I have a lot of sympathy for men.   I think they put up with a lot.  The way they are portrayed on tv shows as bumbling idiots who can’t use a washing machine even though practically every machine ever invented was invented by a man.  The unconscious manner in which women joke about them and put them down. The way it's seemingly ok for women to objectify men but god forbid a man even looks too long at a woman.

In Defence of Men and Masculinity
The Feminine
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Sexual Self Esteem and Feminine Polarity for ...

Sexual Self Esteem is how a woman feels about herself in relation to matters of sex, how much she knows about herself sexually, and about the feminine mysteries of her own body, her ability to flow freely and enjoy sex, to know what she wants and to have clear boundaries.  A woman with high sexual self confidence is attractive to men, or whoever she wants to relate with. 

Sexual Self Esteem and Feminine Polarity for Women
Sacred Sexuality
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Relaxed Arousal is a Spiritual Experience ...

There is a lot to be said for cultivating a relaxed approach towards sex.  There’s a whole different world of infinite possibilities to explore that a lot of people miss because they have sex in pursuit of the peak orgasm.  

Relaxed Arousal is a Spiritual Experience Unlike any Other.

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Dance don't Wrestle (Polarities Part 2)

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Dance don't Wrestle (Polarities Part 2)

As above, so below. Principles of nature exist at every scale of the universe from the micro to the macro level, and are at play within all living things: ourselves, within our relationships, society, culture, nature, the world and the cosmos. They are in all living things and in all social dynamics and on every level of existence. The two most basic and foundational principles of life are the polarity of positive and negative, yin and yang, the masculine and the feminine, from which all things are born.

Polarities Matter

Polarities Matter

When it comes to relationships, it is the ways in which we are the same that creates closeness between us.  Shared values, shared world view, shared goals, shared interests, time spent together and so on.   But it is distance and difference which creates and renews desire in a long term relationship.  Because a lot of  couples spend a lot of time together and sleep in the same bed every night, they can end up very deeply bonded on a friendship and love level, yet find that their attraction to each other gets weaker the longer they spend together.  All is not lost though, as there are some very practical things we can do to keep desire alive.