Welcome to my healing oasis, little boutique of sensual pleasures, and window
to my thoughts from the world of sacred sexuality.
My name is Bella.
And with people worldwide, via the wonder of Skype.
I help people with their sexual sensual self esteem and with getting more in touch with their own bodies and their own needs and their pleasures and that of their partner's.
A Tantric Massage is always a positive, empowering, expansive, healing and potentially life changing experience for you and your body.
Couples can come and learn how to apply the principles of Tantric Touch in their own lives. Again, there are two offerings, you can choose a one off experience, Tantric Connection for Couples, or, if you would like to delve more deeply and have more fun, please consider my package of 3 coaching sessions, Tantric Intimacy for Loving Couples.
Please look at my offerings page to see the sessions I have created and what I can personally do for you.
Or click through to the next page if you'd like to know more about me. (I hope so.)
We certainly live in a sex-saturated society, but it is far from a sex-positive culture. Sexual energy is the most profound and powerful source of energy available to us, yet it has been deeply misunderstood, under-utilised and suppressed. Sex itself is often misused. Sexual healing is necessary to reclaim what is natural to us and what has gone missing.
This woman may be in disguise. She looks very feminine. In fact, she looks very feminine indeed. Dressed in heels and a sexy dress, a well cared for body and a made up face. She looks like she’s all woman. She may think she’s all woman, because she’s got the look, the waxing, the boobs, the high heels, the manicure and pedicure. But she’s not. Be very careful.
Almost everyone who's come of age in our sex negative culture needs loving guidance in adulthood in order to reach their full sexual potential. Genital armoring initially occurs when children are shamed or discouraged from touching their genitals, enjoying their bodies through masturbation and engaging in natural exploration with peers. It can also result from invasive medical interventions, insensitive or unskilled partners, rough handling, overuse of vibrators, emotional trauma, and from unfulfilling lovemaking.
That’s how you could think of us. Or, you can think of us as having 196 vagina’s on our body, and it’s your job to find each and every one, (and it’s our job to help you too.) When you narrow down your focus to just the obvious genitalia, it’s disappointing....
Begins at the tip of the toes, no, beyond the toes, summoned from the earth itself, the kiss rises from beyond the toes, and is breathed up the body, coiling and uncoiling like the movement of a snake, it warms the groin and the belly as it passes, it floods into the heart like a dam breaking, the chest expands.
Semen is Latin
for a dormant, fertilised,
plant ovum -
Think of me as one big Yoni. All lips and labia and clitorises and g-spots. Every part of me cellularly sparkling and the abyss in my womb connecting me to the heart of the centre of the universe yawning open, portal after portal, opening up to infinity like an endlessly unfolding fractal.
Because vagina isn’t even anatomically correct and sounds clinical to boot. And calling it Vag Vag’ and the like … that’s not even for little girls. That sounds like something you decorate with plastic diamantes. Pussy. That’s sexy, I don’t mind that, but it’s a different meaning again, all about the sex of it, nothing about the sacred.
Sometimes in a couples' life, it's inevitable that a man's plumbing won't respond as hoped for. This can happen for men when they are feeling disconnected from themselves, aren't getting regular sex, are with partners they're not 100% confident with, as they age, if they've had a bit to drink, or when they're a bit stressed, which would be most men in Sydney.
That's all it comes down to. The simple things. You put your bodies together in love and you breathe together, and you stay present, and you move with the sensations that are aroused from this approach. Every thought is considered a distraction in this approach. You follow the body, it's natural movements, sounds and desires